People pleasing? Tell me about it. I’ve paid for badly cooked food, bought ill fitting clothes, contributed to “good causes” that I couldn’t care less about...all because I don’t want to upset someone. I’m the perfect customer. “Half a pound of crap stuff, sir?” “Yes please. You’re ever so kind.”
Oh my goodness. I relate so hard to this 😂 I’m actually reading a book at the moment to try and cure me of my people pleasing disease. Might just burn it and embrace the disease instead?!
Haha! I love the thought of a people pleaser trying to burn a book. I'm thinking that there would be some last minute guilt that stops you as you'd be worried that the author might find out and get sad.
People pleasing? Tell me about it. I’ve paid for badly cooked food, bought ill fitting clothes, contributed to “good causes” that I couldn’t care less about...all because I don’t want to upset someone. I’m the perfect customer. “Half a pound of crap stuff, sir?” “Yes please. You’re ever so kind.”
Yes, it's definitely more expensive to be a people pleaser. Perhaps there should be a government grant for really nice people.
I’m now really, really worried that your neighbor might be a reader of your Substack. I’ll be up all night.
I hadn't even thought of that! I'm pretty sure he's not. I'll have to check my list now!!
Oh my goodness. I relate so hard to this 😂 I’m actually reading a book at the moment to try and cure me of my people pleasing disease. Might just burn it and embrace the disease instead?!
Haha! I love the thought of a people pleaser trying to burn a book. I'm thinking that there would be some last minute guilt that stops you as you'd be worried that the author might find out and get sad.
100%. Also the book would be sad and I’d lie awake worrying about it 🙃
Hahaha! Yes.